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Re-integrating the inner child
Deep State RePatterning is a new process that combines EFT with NLP (neuro-linguistic programming) and deals with the deep cores of issues. It could be considered as a powerful metaphorical technique that deals with issues carried over from past lives, different generations of the family, pre-birth, birth and current life experiences. (You do not need to believe in past lives, etc, to use this approach).
by Tania A Prince, EFT Master, AAMET Trainer & NLP Trainer
Re-integrating the inner child is a part of the process that occurs after emotionally healing the inner child. This part is done in order to create wholeness and inner harmony.
- Completely clear the inner child’s emotions using EFT, until a place of peace is reached
- Tap on the karate point and ask the healed inner child if it is OK to re-integrate back with the adult?
- Listen to the answer, reassuring the inner child that what it wants is important and that you are listening
- If the answer is no, ask “What needs to be healed to allow re-integration?”
This will often provide a tap-able issue. If so, tap it through until it is clear and then re-ask the question, continue until the inner child is OK with re-integrating with the adult.
An example of an objection to re-integration
When asked the re-integration question, the lady asking got a sense or image of fog, like a cloudy sky and a feeling of choking. This was tapped through just using normal EFT language. Instantly the fog lifted, the lady had a sense of the sky being cleared. When asked again about re-integration there was no objection.
Once you have agreement for re-integration, tap on the karate point and have that sense of bringing that part back on board. Many people have the sense of bringing it into their heart. The following is a typical example of the language used while tapping and re-integrating the inner child.
Karate point: “Having that sense of re-connecting with that part”
Eyebrow: “Beginning to connect with all those wonderful resources”
Side of the eye: “Feeling and sensing that connection in a wonderful way”
Under the eye: “That wonderful (name a quality that that child now has -” an example that I have come across has been wisdom, other examples might be innocence, strength, determination), feeling that now
Under the nose: Connecting with that (name another quality that that child now has - such as determination)
Chin point: Feeling all that strength now as all parts begin to re-connect as one
Collarbone: Feeling all those wonderful feelings and experiencing that sense of oneness, now
Underarm point: “Allowing that integration to complete and sensing those wonderful feelings of connection and wholeness”.
After completing the re-integration process some people have felt a strengthening of their “inner core”, the central part of their body.